Monday, February 28, 2011

Samson

Well, we finally did it.... Samuel had his first haircut. I didn't think I would ever be ready to cut off his adorable ringlets, but he was constantly mistaken for a girl and he hated having his long hair washed and combed. I made a deal with Allen that after we had his 18 month professional photos taken that we would get his hair cut. Allen, of course, has been ready to have his hair cut for months. Understandably, since most Daddy's don't like their sons being called "pretty little girls."

Our biggest obstacle was finding a salon that didn't charge an astronomical amount. Most places we checked wanted $10-15 - for a baby! After a couple days of searching we eventually found a nice salon that only wanted $7 (much more reasonable).

Samuel did great during the cut. We worried that he would squirm too much and get scared. He is always firmly attached to me in the presence of strangers, so he sat on my lap facing my chest. He refused to wear the plastic cape so I wore it instead which upset him just a bit. I guess he didn't like me being all covered up and not as accessible. He was okay once he realized I could still give him reassuring hugs as needed.





He turned his head back and forth a little in the beginning but the stylist was able to move with him and got his trim finished in about 10 minutes. She even let him play with the water squirt bottle when she was done which made his day!







I have to say that Allen was right, he looks even more adorable with his new "surfer dude" look. I was mostly concerned that all his precious baby curls would be cut-off, never to return, but his hair is definitely wavy like mine. He still has plenty of curl and with his shorter locks it may be even more noticeable since it would often get frizzy before, especially after he woke up.

Here's his new rugged and handsome hairstyle. Watch out toddler ladies!





(We were getting Allen's contacts at Sam's Club, BTW)

Monday, February 21, 2011

Nerd Convention, Part Deux

For the past few days we have been embracing our inner-nerd at the GenghisCon gaming convention in Denver. This event is a follow-up to the TactiCon event that we attended over Labor Day. At the last convention we didn't participate in many games. Allen played a couple, but I mostly just chased Samuel. We saw several that looked interesting, though, so this time we sat down with the catalog ahead of time and both selected a few to play.

Allen chose mostly role playing games and I picked board games. We had choose wisely to make sure that our schedules didn't overlap since one of us had to be able to entertain Samuel at all times. The game organizers frown on toddler players. Imagine that!

Since I am new to gaming nerdery it was surprising to both of us that I actually enjoyed my games more than Allen. I played Starfarers of Catan, a version of Settlers of Catan that takes place in outer space, and Mystery Express, which is a whodunit type games similar to my childhood favorite, Clue.

Allen said the role playing games he chose were fun, but he wasn't crazy about the people he had to play with. Some of them are just a little too involved in the gaming world and take things much too seriously. He also said a few had some personal hygiene issues that made it hard to be around them. Yuck! Next time we go (yes, there will be a next time) he intends to also play board games and leave role playing to the super-nerds.





Samuel was very helpful pushing our luggage up to the room.

We stayed for two days and enjoyed eating out and a nice hotel room. It's always fun to stay somewhere else and not do dishes! On our way back to Cheyenne we stopped at the Denver Children's Museum so Samuel could finally release all of the pent-up energy that had been building over the weekend. He was able to do so much more this time and really enjoyed all of the different stations throughout the museum. He did all kinds of fun things!

He worked on the farm









Made new friends



Practiced being a train engineer





Mopped at the grocery store





Checked groceries





Became a chef





Climbed a really big tree



Hung out with Mommy in a tree house







Burrowed tunnels underground with Mommy





And stopped to smell the flowers





He even got to see the fire truck lights flash and made the "woo, woo, woo" sound effects!

Friday, February 18, 2011

Doctor Drama

In Samuel's world Mom is good, most everyone else is bad. Especially if that someone tries to seperate him from Mom. If that someone also happens to poke and prod at him as well, then all hell breaks loose.

Our visit with the pediatrician started off well enough. He always has a good time playing with the bead mazes and wooden activity bus in the waiting room. We got into the our exam room and the nurse had me strip him down his diaper. No problem there, he's always happy for the opportunity to frolick around half-naked.

The trouble started when we tried to weigh him and lay him down to measure his height. Loud protests and grumbles could be heard throughout the office. When the tape measure went around his head, the kicking, thrashing and squealing began. Finally, all his stats were recorded and we had a chance to regroup. He calmed down pretty quickly and made it his job to explore every inch of the small room.

His pediatrician, Dr. Parker, arrived and was met by a very talkative toddler. Samuel wanted to tell him all about the things he had discovered in the room, including the sink, stairs the lead up to the top of the fire engine exam table, and computer cords under the the desk. He pointed and babbled and pointed some more.

The doctor asked me to sit Samuel on top of the exam table so he could give him a head to toe inspection. Since my baby clung to me like a fifth appendage it was obvious the rest of Samuel's exam would have to be conducted from the comfort and safety of my lap.

It's funny how aware he has become of strangers and people who are unfamiliar. Even when he sees me react positively towards a new person it still takes him a long time to warm up to them. We have been to the doctor many times before, every 3 months since he's been born in fact, but this visit instigated the strongest reaction. He wholeheartedly objected to the entire experience.

Hopefully, he will feel a little differently at his 2 year visit. Otherwise, I may need to bring earplugs to distribute to everyone in the office. Samuel has quite a set of lungs and he knows how to use them!

Monday, February 14, 2011

Monkey Man (18 months)

If the experts and correct and toddler development comes in phases, then this month Samuel has been focused on his mobility, upward mobility, to be exact. He has become quite a little monkey using just about anything he can find to help him get up to a higher level. I guess he just wants to see things from a different perspective. He climbs on chairs so that he can climb on top of tables, he uses shelves as stairs, and even climbs on top of the toilet to peek in the trash.

As much as he enjoys being up he also spends a lot of time down. Under the dining room table is one of his favorite places to hang out. He likes to spend time down there with his kitty friends. He also lays under his train table. On more than one occasion I have caught him up under the bed. The only problem with that one is that he doesn't know how to get back out! He just lays under there whimpering until one of us come to the rescue and pulls him out by his legs.



He's been learning and doing a lot of other fun, new things this month too! Here is a sampling:

- He's learned several new words including water, zebra, dance, Allen, on, hot, baby, beep, boo boo, block, and light, eat, bath, and hop.

- He is still learning new signs too and has been using cracker, airplane, and please.

- He tries to blow raspberries on my tummy (after watching Daddy do it).

- He is able to correctly drink from a water bottle, although he has much more fun pouring it all out.

- He says "uh oh" when he drop something, even if it's on purpose.

- He says "ow" when he sees a band-aid.

- He loves to turn light switch on and off.

- He tries to blow his nose with a wet wipe. He hold it up to his nose and breathes really hard into it.

- He is fascinated by magnets and will move them all around the fridge and try to pull them off.

- He got a LOT of teeth this month (12 total). His molars and eye teeth came through - there were a lot of sleepless nights at our house!

- He will give me hugs by slipping his arms under mine, laying his head on my chest and holding tight.

- He tries to pull his pants on but isn't able to open them wide enough to fit his legs inside.

- He tries to climb the shelves in the fridge to reach things on top.

- We are finally able to cut his fingernails while he is awake. He squirms a little, but it's much better than trying to do it at night which always woke him up.

- He will hide behind curtains (or just about anything) then pop out and say "I see you," which is what I've always said to him when playing Peek-a-Boo.

- He likes when Dad swerves the car on the empty alley road behind our house. He grips the sides of his car seat and laughs - it's like a roller coaster!

- He always poops when we take him to the library to play. We're not sure what the correlation is, but it happens every time.

- He is learning to open doors that are closed - oh no!

- He is able to climb into our bed by using the edge of the frame as a step, often while holding on to a book.

- He likes to throw things down the stairs.

- He will cling to my leg around new people or in unfamiliar places.

- He often nurses and then rolls over to the other side so we can spoon (my arm around his waist, both facing same direction) as he drifts off to sleep.

- He likes to read Dr. Seuss books including: Green Eggs and Ham, There's a Wocket in my Pocket and The Eyes Book.

- He initiates a game where he turns his face then slowly turns it back to see if you are still looking at him. If you are then he will smile really big and say "I see!"

- He climbs in and out of the bathtub easily.

- He will give Daddy a goodnight kiss over the top of his safety gate and then promptly slams the door in his face when he is ready for nite-nite.

- He needs a lot of hugs and snuggles when he first wakes up from a nap.

- He says hot when we are cooking on the stove or if he tastes something too warm. He also says it when he sees my blow dryer. In fact, he will pull the blow dryer out of the drawer and bring it over to me just so he can tell me it's "hot."

- He frequently puts two words together like "I know", "no dog" and "I see."

- He gives kisses with his mouth wide open.

- He finally laughs at things I have been doing since he was born, like scrunching my face up tight then opening my mouth and eyes really wide.

- He sits Indian style or with legs crossed.

- He helps pick up his toys (when he feels like it).

- He will hit or hug his friends depending on his mood and the situation.

- He is able to stack several blocks although his favorite stacking objects are cans. He stacks the soda cans (and other contents) from the fridge and one day he started stacking canned goods in the middle of an aisle at the grocery store!

- He likes to stick out his tounge and bite on it.

- He will lay his head down on any bed and say "nite-nite." He also likes to put his head down on a pillow even though he doesnt use one yet.

- He is able to combine two words together such as "Bye-bye Ma-ma."

- He dances with his arms now by moving them from side to side.

- He opens his mouth really wide when he wants a bite of something we are eating.

- He often says "I know" in response to something we have said.

- He likes to comb and play with my hair.

- He will give his stuffed Ernie doll and dancing Mickey Mouse hugs and kisses (with encouragement).

- He screams in frustration when he needs help or is not able to do something on his own.

- He will hold my finger and use it to point to things in books.

- He often points to my chest when he wants to nurse.

- He is able to say A, B and C.

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Fondue for Two

Love is always in the air at the Graham house. Although, for Valentine's Day we were all feeling particularly warm and fuzzy towards one another. Allen and I contemplated doing something special on our own and trying to find a sitter for Samuel, but sitters are hard to come by and besides, Samuel is our Valentine too!

Allen was scheduled to work on the actual holiday (of course) so we celebrated a day early on Sunday. We headed down to Fort Collins to enjoy a Japanese sushi and hibachi lunch. I felt assured the Samuel would stay entertained since our meal would be cooked at the table. We hadn't tried this restaurant before, but at all other hibachi restaurants the chefs also perform tricks while they cook, so I felt confident he would have a good time.

He sat still long enough to eat a few pieces of vegetable tempura, shrimp dumplings and Unagi (eel) sushi. That was about 15 minutes. The rest of our hour plus visit was spent taking turns chasing him around the restaurant. Even when our chef arrived to cook he could have cared less. The dirt in the potted plants and blinds on the windows were much more interesting. In the front room he even found a table with two little girls and they became fast friends.

So much for an intimate family dinner! At least he was quiet and didn't run around the restaurant screaming. Everyone at our hibachi table commented that he was very well behaved, considering his age. Even though we didn't spend much time sitting together, I still wouldn't have wanted to leave him home. Having a busy little boy keeps up on our toes and makes every outing an adventure. There's never a dull moment!















Once we got home and had Samuel settled in bed, Allen and I were able to spend a romantic evening together enjoying fondue. We used our mini crock pot to heat milk chocolate and dipped a delicious assortment of treats including fruit, marshmallows, pretzels, brownies, Oreos and ladyfingers. Even after we were full, and our sweet tooths fully satisfied, we still kept eating. No use letting perfectly good chocolate go to waste!



Earlier in the day we also exchanged small gifts and cards. Our gift to Samuel was a collection of books about love and kindness. One book featured his favorite Sesame Street character, Elmo, and another had the characters from Yo Gabba Gabba. Allen brought me a dozen beautiful roses and I gave him a box of his favorite confection, chocolate caramels. By the end of the day we were all feeling very loved!







Saturday, February 12, 2011

My Funny Valentine

The ladies in my mom's club sure do like to party - with toddlers and preschoolers! It seems like every couple months there is another party to plan and attend. It's a great way for us to stay busy and we always look forward to a morning full of snacks, crafts and fun with friends.



Today was our Valentine's Party. Allen was out on alert (again) so, unfortunately, he wasn't able to go with us. Samuel had fun making crafts, which really meant that I assembled the craft while he played with the supplies. He did "color" a picture and really enjoyed "making his own valentine" for Daddy. He stuck the adhesive hearts on construction paper and even scribbled his own message inside. Daddy was very impressed and loved his special card. I made him a beaded bracelet with his name, but he wouldn't let me put it on him.















Later, there was a Valentine exchange where Samuel got to drop his Tron valentines into his friends' boxes. We also enjoyed snacks and a fun game where the kids got to pick up hearts that were scattered around the room.